• In memory of Lola Margarita, whose hands brewed love into every cup.

    I grew up with coffee not just as a beverage, but as a ritual—an inheritance steeped in memory. My grandmother, Lola Margarita, cultivated her own beans in South Cotabato, on the island of Mindanao. She roasted them over fire, ground them by hand, and brewed them with reverence. Her coffee was bold, aromatic, and deeply comforting. It was the taste of morning prayer, of quiet strength, of home.

    Earlier this year, I returned to the Philippines carrying a two-pound bag of Starbucks’ Caffè Verona, hoping to share something familiar with my family. I expected to find better coffee there—something closer to Lola’s—but I was surprised, even disappointed, by what I tasted. The local brews lacked the depth and aroma I remembered. A family member gave me barako from Batangas, but it felt flat and one-dimensional. Another gifted me Robusta from Sultan Kudarat, which was bold but bitter in a way that didn’t resonate.

    It made me wonder: what happened to the coffee I knew?

    Lola’s beans were likely Arabica, grown in the highlands near Mt. Matutum, where indigenous communities like the B’laan and T’boli still cultivate heirloom varieties. Today, that region produces some of the Philippines’ finest Arabica, but much of it doesn’t reach local markets. Instead, instant coffee dominates, and traditional roasting methods have faded.

    A drone shot of Mt. Matutum on the island of Mindanao, Philippines

    Back home in Nevada, I grind and brew my own coffee—$14 a pound, plus tax. It’s not cheap, especially with prices rising and tariffs looming. But it’s worth it. Each cup is a quiet act of remembrance. The hum of the grinder, the bloom of the pour, the steam rising like incense—it all brings me back to Lola’s kitchen, to the warmth of her hands and the dignity of her craft.

    Coffee, for me, is more than flavor. It’s legacy. It’s presence. It’s the bittersweet taste of change—and the enduring aroma of love.

  • Lakepointe Church senior pastor Josh Howerton delivered a sermon titled, “How to Vote Like Jesus.” In it, Howerton “repeated GOP rhetoric in a veiled attempt to convince his Dallas-Fort Worth congregation how to cast their votes in November’s election.”

    Howerton recommended that Christians “should rid themselves of the idea that presidential candidates, including former President Donald Trump and Vice President Kamala Harris, must be perfect. Instead, he suggested people vote for the politician they believe best upholds their religious values.”

    So, if you’re a Christian, how do you vote like Jesus”? Howerton’s implied answer to that is of course, “Vote for Donald Trump.” But does Trump uphold Christian values?

    I’ve seen lists of “Christian values” that obviously try to tailor-fit Donald Trump’s conservative political stance, or at least what he says he believes in, presumably to please his evangelical supporters. But I won’t fall into the same temptation by hand-picking Christian values that may favor Kamala Harris, or by going the opposite direction and coming up with a list that traps and judges Donald Trump. So I asked the question, What might be a source for a list of Christian values that would be seen as politically neutral?

    What can be more apolitical than than the values Christian parents teach their children? To find a list, preferably a short one (as I don’t have the time for a very long one), I searched online for books that might help parents teach their children Christian values.

    I found one: 10 Christian Values Every Kid Should Know. By the way, we shouldn’t think there’s one set of values for kids and another for adults. And the book does not imply that at all.

    I like the way the book is promoted: “Using the latest research, Donna Habenicht provides more than 1,000 strategies for teaching kids the basic Christian values of respect, responsibility, self-control, honesty, compassion, thankfulness, perseverance, humility, loyalty, and faith in God.

    We’re not going to use 1,000 strategies for teaching voting adults Christian values, but we’re going to use the same values that Habernicht has on the list.

    RESPECT
    Even if you’re the most loyal of all Donald Trump’s MAGA fans, you would not consider Trump a respectful man. And Jesus would certainly agree with you! Trump is known for the opposite. He disrespects anyone who opposes him. His disrespectful name-calling are too embarrassing to mention in detail here. So I won’t. But let me make an exception: Trump called Kamala Harris “dumb as a rock” and a “low-IQ individual.” By the way, that’s a very interesting insult from a very disrespectful presidential candidate who didn’t want to debate with his opponent again after she defeated him in the only one they had.

    RESPONSIBILITY
    Besides Richard Nixon’s irresponsible involvement in the Watergate scandal that resulted in Americans losing faith in the government, the January 6 insurrection is probably the most irresponsible event in recent memory that a presidential candidate was involved in and didn’t care about what might happen to people at the U.S. Capitol, including his own vice president, Mike Pence. “Donald Trump sat for hours watching the Jan. 6 attack on the U.S. Capitol unfold on live TV, ignoring pleas by his children and other close advisers to urge his supporters to stop the violence.”

    SELF-CONTROL
    What is self-control? Meriam-Webster defines it as follows: “restraint exercised over one’s own impulses, emotions, or desires.” I think that anyone of us can sometimes lose self-control, but there’s one among us who always loses his cool. The most recent one, if you missed it, is a display of utter lack of self-control. His behavior and actions were, to say it mildly, not appropriate for general audience and definitely not befitting a person running for the most dignified office in the world: President of the United States. In a recent political rally in Milwaukee, Donald Trump lost his cool over the microphone that didn’t serve him well: “I get so angry. I’m up here seething. I’m seething, I’m working my ass off with this stupid mic. I’m blowing out my left arm, now I’m going to blow out my right arm and I’m blowing out my damn throat too because of these stupid people….” From a display of anger, he transitioned to an act of lewdness as he depicted a sexual act using the mic stand.

    HONESTY
    Honesty is an issue that those who pay close attention to and watch unedited videos of presidential candidates know who between the two do not have it in their heart to tell the truth. I have been reminded a number of times that none of us tell the truth every time. Well taken. But I’m also aware of the fact that one presidential candidate, Donald Trump, has been documented making false claims and lying to people all the time. “By the end of his term, Trump had accumulated 30,573 untruths during his presidency — averaging about 21 erroneous claims a day.” Only about 2% of people’s lies are cruel lies. But Trump’s cruel lies are a staggering 50% of his lies: “Instead of adding up to 1 or 2 percent, as in my previous research, (Trump’s cruel lies) accounted for 50 percent. When I first saw that number appear on my screen, I gasped. I knew, of course, that Trump likes to mock and denigrate other people (and countries and agencies), but I didn’t realize just how often he was doing that with his lies.” That clearly tells us what kind of a liar Trump is—the most cruel!

    COMPASSION
    Compassion is a feeling of sympathy or pity for someone who is suffering, and a desire to help them. It’s a social feeling that can motivate people to help others relieve their physical, mental, or emotional pain.” There’s an image that comes to mind and one that graphically shows a lack of compassion. In 2015, Donald Trump, appeared to mock a reporter, Serge Kovaleski, when he contorted his arms apparently imitating Kovaleski, who suffers from arthrogryposis. In Trump’s defense, others have denied Trump mocked Kovaleski, but you can just watch it to see for yourself.

    THANKFULNESS
    There are so many things we can be thankful for but there’s one thing that I believe many of us are grateful for: the privilege of living in this imperfect and yet still the greatest country in the world. A young person has expressed why we should be thankful for living in the United States: “We live in a country that has so much freedom that we often take that freedom for granted. In other countries freedoms like political diversity, education, and religion is illegal, sometimes the outcome is even harmful. We need to realize just how lucky we are.”
    Despite that realization, however, a presidential candidate, instead of expressing gratitude, trashes America: Former President Donald Trump has called the United States a “third world nation.” The reason for him degenerating America is because of his allegation that the 2020 election was stolen from him despite the fact that he has no evidence to back his claim. Today he still continues to trash America when he ought to be thankful that he could freely do even the crazy things he does.

    PERSEVERANCE
    Perhaps this is a trait that Donald Trump possesses. He lost the last election, denies he lost, and is now running again as candidate for president. He perseveres! But why? It seems obvious to me that he’s running again not really because he cares about people and the country. He cares about himself, how he can use his power to avoid punishment for the crimes he has been convicted of, and he wants to wield enormous power against his enemies. Unfortunately, that’s not the kind of thing good leaders patiently suffer through to achieve their dreams that are often not just for themselves but also for the country and the world. If Trump is known for anything, it is for short cuts. What can be a faster way of making more money than giving tax cuts to billionaires like himself (if he is still considering his debts).

    The American economy has been built on the back of regular American workers and they are the ones who need the tax cut. But didn’t Trump claim he cut taxes for the middle class? Yes he did. But it was just a claim. “The tax legislation that President Donald Trump signed in December 2017 significantly reduced federal revenues, with the largest tax cuts going to the richest Americans. Following the enactment of these tax cuts, federal revenues fell dramatically—as the Joint Committee on Taxation (JCT) and Congressional Budget Office (CBO) projected would occur at the time the law passed1—and they remain below projections of federal revenues made prior to their enactment.”

    HUMILITY
    Do we even need to talk about this? OK, I don’t want to deprive you of a good laugh. So here, and you may laugh out loud too: https://youtu.be/ANvWtIwoOb8?si=HpOF__IvL6UVyIiV

    LOYALTY
    Loyalty happens to be a big word to Donald Trump. But loyalty is always towards him. Anyone who is not loyal to him was and will be fired! The list of the people he fired is long and you can google that yourself. Trump is not known for loyalty. He is not loyal to his own country—he degenerates the United and criticizes how it is governed by leaders a lot smarter and better than himself, and praises despots like Vladimir Putin, Xi Jinping, and Kim Jong Un. His only loyalty is to himself.

    FAITH IN GOD
    Donald Trump talks about his faith. Yes. Rarely, but he does, especially when he is speaking to his evangelical base. He praises people like Franklin Graham who, in times of natural disasters, go out there and help people (see for example). Caring and helping others can be a sign of faith. James 2:14-17 (English Standard Version) reads,

    What good is it, my brothers, if someone says he has faith but does not have works? Can that faith save him? If a brother or sister is poorly clothed and lacking in daily food, and one of you says to them, “Go in peace, be warmed and filled,” without giving them the things needed for the body, what good is that? So also faith by itself, if it does not have works, is dead.

    But is Trump really interested in helping people because his faith makes him such a caring person? Those who know Trump know him very well:

    Donald Trump deliberately withheld disaster aid to states he deemed politically hostile to him as US president and will do so again unimpeded if he returns to the White House, several former Trump administration officials have warned.

    As Hurricane Helene and then Hurricane Milton have ravaged much of the south-eastern US in the past two weeks, Trump has sought to pin blame upon Joe Biden’s administration for a ponderous response to the disasters, even suggesting that this was deliberate due to the number of Republican voters affected by the storms.
    Harris accuses Trump of ‘playing politics’ with hurricane disaster relief.

    …former Trump administration officials have said the former president, when in office, initially refused to release federal disaster aid for wildfires in California in 2018, withheld wildfire assistance for Washington state in 2020, and severely restricted emergency relief to Puerto Rico in the wake of the devastating Hurricane Maria in 2017 because he felt these places were not sufficiently supportive of him.

    So back to the question: “How to vote like Jesus?”

    Yes, a presidential candidate does not have to perfect. And I agree with Pastor Howerton that we “should rid ourselves of the idea that presidential candidates, including former President Donald Trump and Vice President Kamala Harris, must be perfect. “Instead…people (should) vote for the politician they believe best upholds their religious values.”

    So if we are to teach people the Christian values listed above and choose one of the candidates who better embodies and upholds those values, though imperfectly, who might that be?

    You know who my choice is. And I think Jesus would approve of my choice. Who is yours?

  • ER Patient: Me

    I have a daily routine. Part of it is taking my blood pressure before making coffee.

    After I pushed the blood pressure monitor’s start button in the morning of the 20th of March 2024, Ruth caught me leaning towards my left side with my tongue sticking out on one side of my mouth.

    “What’s happening to you?”

    “I’m sleepy.”

    I passed out.

    When I snapped out of it, I was being carried in a stretcher by paramedics.

    One of them instructed me to raise a particular limb after another. I did for each one.

    In the ambulance, I was conscious all the way to the hospital. I even recognized the road we were on as I’d driven there countless times on the way to and back from Costco Businesses Center.

    When we were entering the hospital’s Emergency Room, I asked, “Are we at UMC?”

    “Yes,” the paramedic replied.

    I felt good about myself.

    Ruth, however, had not been feeling good about what was happening to me. She believed I had a stroke. She observed that I had all the symptoms of a stroke. And that’s why she instructed our youngest son to call 911.

    What could have triggered this health crisis? I try to eat a healthy balanced diet and exercise regularly. In fact, just a couple of days before, I went hiking near Red Rock Canyon!

    Hiking First Creek Trail near Red Rock Canyon

    My sister-in-law who came with her whole family from the Philippines for a surprise visit jokingly said it was caused by my shock for unexpectedly seeing them after so many years.

    We all had a good laugh. But the question remains.

    After a barrage of tests, the young ER doctor (probably in his mid 30s) said, “The good news is we don’t find anything wrong with you. The bad news, you have COVID.” Then he went on to explain that he believed the virus infection triggered my blood pressure* levels to go up (163/81) and that’s why I got dizzy and passed out.

    I visit hospice patients and am too familiar with death and dying. Some of the patients I’ve seen were younger than me. One was almost two decades younger. Yet despite the fact that I’m now in my late 60s I still feel young and healthy. I never really felt threatened by death until now. Neither was my family worried about my health until now.

    Death is a fact of life. We have to deal with it sooner—indeed now—than later.

    Recently, Ruth and I talked about certain things that we have to set up before it’s too late (like a trust) to get ourselves and our family ready.

    For now, despite being aware that death can come anytime, I have to make a commitment to continue to take care of myself. I want to be there for my loved ones, friends, and the rest of the people who need my support and care for as long as possible.

    So help me, God.

    ___

    *https://newsroom.heart.org/news/covid-19-may-trigger-new-onset-high-blood-pressure

  • In the quiet chapel, where stained glass whispered stories of saints and sinners, I find solace. My footsteps echo, a rhythmic cadence that matches the beat of my heart. Each pew holds secrets—some whispered, others shouted in prayer or lament. But today, I carry a unique burden, one that weighs upon my soul.

    The man in Room 157, his pain etched into the grooves of his hands, recounts a symphony of suffering. Neuropathy, like discordant notes, reverberates through his bones. The veins spared, but the leg’s grand artery—the highway of life—removed. A relic of 2000, yet it still throbs, a silent hymn.

    And then, the hip—broken twice, a testament to resilience. Laughter spills from his lips, a bittersweet melody. “A big challenge,” he says, and I nod in agreement.

    He traces his spiritual journey—a Baptist once, now a seeker. In 2002, California’s prison walls held him. There, he met a Muslim—a fellow traveler on this winding road. Conversations flowed like hymns, prayers interwoven with shared doubts.

    “I accept the Muslim,” he tells me. “Sometimes my prayers stumble, seeking better footing. The mosque beckons, a challenge to return.”

    His eyes, galaxies of faith, hold both love and struggle. “Physical love,” he says, “makes worship harder. But God—whether Allah or Jesus—knows no boundaries. In 2003, a stroke blurred my vision, yet I seek clarity.

    In the California choir, I strummed my guitar, harmonizing with souls. The Bible, once my compass, now shares space with the Quran. Walls crumble; God remains.

    And prayer—the universal tongue. It heals not only the spirit but also the body. Worries find solace in whispered conversations with the Divine. “Anytime,” I assure him, “God listens. All the time.”

    As I leave Room 157, the man’s voice lingers—a psalm of endurance. The chapel absorbs his melody, and I hum along, knowing that faith transcends labels.

    In the quiet corridors, I carry his song—a harmonious blend of brokenness and healing. And somewhere, in the vastness of the universe, angels lean closer to listen.

  • “The big difference between the Golden Globes and the NFL? At the Golden Globes, we have fewer camera shots of Taylor Swift,” the comedian quipped.

    What’s wrong with that? Really, nothing! Besides, it’s matter-of-factly true! And if you’re not an onion-skinned Taylor Swift fan, that’s actually funny! Especially if you’ve seen the who-knows-how-many camera shots of Swift at the NFL.

    So why is the media so hard on Filipino American comedian, Jo Koy? My guess is that the star-struck media and Swift fans just went with the flow and follow her lead: Swift’s tight-lip reaction to the joke.

    They’ve made Jo Koy look even worse by saying his jokes weren’t funny. C’mon! Watch the clips and see how people were laughing. Some even found the Swift/NFL joke funny, excluding Swift, of course!

    But what if Swift was sport enough to just ride on Jo Koy’s joke, like Robert De Niro and Meryl Streep did? I bet things would have been different.

    I don’t find all of Jo Koy’s jokes that funny, but it’s not fair to judge his performance based on Swift’s facial response to his joke. Yes, even if she is Time Magazine’s Person of the Year.

  • Oh one! Oh one! Whose birth falls on January one!
    At this age what have you already done?
    Perhaps that’s the wrong question to ask an old man
    A better question to ask such a man is ‘Are you a grown man?’

    Old Man

    But what do we mean when we ask an old man if he’s a grown man?
    Physical stature is measurable and is a lot easier to define
    But when it comes to growth, build and looks aren’t what he wants you to find
    His inner being is more important than anything else that you can find

    Conscious of my consciousness, I am aware that I am
    But I am conscious that I am not alone in such consciousness
    So I don’t give in to the idea that I am “The Great I Am”
    Indeed the opposite is happening within: the more I see the vast universe, the smaller I see myself

    When one passes life beyond halfway through
    In his late 60’s he becomes more aware that life can be almost through
    Especially so when he feels so fragile and unwell
    And thoughts of his own brothers, who passed away when about his age, on his mind sadly dwell

    Sometimes I think that I’m being crazy—
    Thinking ‘God willing, I’m going to do this and that one of these days’
    But perhaps that’s why I’m still here today
    ‘God’s not done with me yet,’ as I heard some folks would like to say

    So I do my part, to keep myself up to whatever task has been entrusted to me
    I daily walk and listen to teachers to keep both my body and mind healthy
    I share thoughts to anyone who is willing to listen
    Hoping that light would help dispel some darkness within


  • By Ed Fernandez

    Kulasisi

    I don’t know when this sad feeling began gnawing deep within my old yet still conscientious soul. I just know that it was long after I made that stroll in a new-found little forest of tall trees that wasn’t there before. In the farm that then already brought joy to a child’s heart of mine, I was now pleasantly surprised that after more than a decade a green paradise had sprung up and given a reason for my twenty-something heart to smile a grand.

    It was in the late 80s when I last went back to our family farm and walked into a glade in the middle of giant trees for the first and, sadly, last time. The little forest that apparently thrived on the upper level of our land, just above where the edge of the unruly Allah River used to flow—before it left a huge swamp between our land and the river when it left to follow its new path—drew me, like magnet, to go under its shady canopy on that unforgettable hot summer day.

    As I entered the coolness beneath the towering trees in what I first thought was just a plant kingdom, I looked up as I heard a cacophony of bird sounds. Behold, a big family of beautiful parrots dressed in bright red and green! My eyes feasted on that beautiful sight until my neck was too stiff to continue looking up and watching and enjoying the free show of the winged actors on the stage of branches and twigs against a backdrop of verdant leaves and a cloud-dotted blue sky high above.

    I don’t remember telling anyone about it—not even my brother and his family who lived there, and definitely not his son who, like any child in rural Sultan Kudarat, knew how to skillfully use a good homemade slingshot. Perhaps that’s because my heart told me it was just our little secret. And perhaps because I knew that for some hungry Filipinos a beautiful parrot, even if it can talk like you do, can be turned into a special Adobo!

    Many years have passed and now I live far away across the Pacific Ocean where one can just forget everything he’s left behind. But how can I? How can I forget a place that brings very happy memories of my childhood? Dipping my overheating energetic small and hairless body beside our big farm carabao’s hairy and bulky one in the cool and limpid pool surrounded by tall reeds where I imagined schools of tiny Haluans swam away from us and hid with their dads and moms, for instance, was a paradisiacal experience for myself as a child. There were many other wonderful memories. But a memory that brings both joy and sadness to my heart is about that little forest and the parrots that sheltered and lived in it. Devoid of sorrow, they sang and played like there was no tomorrow!

    Indeed, there was no tomorrow for them there in our farm. Their fate was sealed by an arbitrary human decision that favored humans. Or did it? The lady whose family bought a portion of our land told me the little green forest was now gone! The tall trees were cut down and the timbers were carried away somewhere across the river to build the home of some guy’s family and then some.

    It’s quite sad the little green forest is now gone. And it’s even more sad that the family of beautiful parrots or their descendants are also gone. Their home, the little green forest, was destroyed. Poor little parrots! Where are they now? Have they survived?

    Why can’t we, humans, just build homes but not at the expense of the little parrots?

  • Are you apprehensive about what others might say because you are already happy with what you believe to be true, and don’t want to change?

    Such uncomfortable feeling is usually felt when you see others as having more knowledge in certain areas, and you feel that you can’t effectively defend your position.

    For example, we don’t want to talk to an insurance or car agent on our own because we believe they have more information than we do; and we lack the information to “defend” ourselves. That’s why we bring along a friend or a family member who we believe know more about insurance policies or cars than we do to help us out.

    We may know quite a few about certain personal truths that we hold dear, but we also know that we don’t have the knowledge that the experts we admire and have relied on and who “speak for us” might have.

    My hunch is that we may have depended too much on experts, especially when making decisions. And we shouldn’t! We should learn things for ourselves.

    Our doctors, for example, may be experts in medicine, but it helps us a lot if we learn more about, say, certain diseases. Armed with sufficient knowledge, we can help ourselves make the right decisions, which may be related to matters of life and death. And if the information we find from more reliable sources are better than what our doctor recommends, then it may be time to consult with another.

    Thank God that these days information is just a Bing or Google away! We can even get the help of an AI to find information that would definitely take a lot more of our time if we’re doing research on our own and in a physical library.

    When after learning more about a certain topic and we find that a certain “personal truth“ overlaps “objective truth” (anything that anyone anywhere finds to be true as a result of, say, scientific research or it is accepted by experts in the field) then that’s great! You don’t have to change your personal truth to the objective one because they’re about the same, except perhaps to make little amendments here and there to make the former more like, if not the same, as the latter.

    But what if your personal truth is contradicted by objective truth? Would you abandon it and embrace objective truth?

    What you do about objective truths would depend on what you are. If you are a “personal truth defender” then you would defend your personal truths or might just avoid conversations related to them. But if you are an “objective truth seeker” your’e not afraid to know the truth. And, as they say, you “follow the truth no matter where it leads.” And that is quite liberating!

    As Jesus said, in John 8:31-32, “If you hold to my teaching, you are really my disciples. 32 Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.”

  • The Parable of the Talents
    Matthew 25:14-30

    Last Sunday we talked about The Parable of the Ten Virgins. Some of you may have already forgotten about that. Today I’m reminding you about that parable because it is closely related to The Parable of the Talents, which is the basis of the sermon today.

    Sometimes we come across passages in the Bible that are closely connected to each other. Such is the case of the apocalyptic passages we find in chapters 24 and 25 of the Gospel of Matthew. The editors of the New Revised Standard Version or NRSVUE have divided them into 10 passages each with each own heading.


    Now that is like a 10-course meal in a Chinese restaurant. The only thing is that it doesn’t end with the usual fortune cookie. The last passage, which will be our text next week, is not all sweet, but like the fortune cookie, it tells us what our fortunes will be. It is about judgment which can be sweet or sad. But I promise, I’ll do my best to help all of us escape judgment or damnation.

    So how are The Parable of the Virgins and The Parable of the Talents connected? Let me point out what I think is the connection between the two:
    The Parable of the Talents picks up the question that the conclusion and application of The Parable of the Ten Virgins raises:

    13 Keep awake therefore, for you know neither the day nor the hour.

    The Parable of the Virgins, which reminds us to be always aware that the Lord is coming again, also reminds us that his coming has been delayed and that we don’t know the day or hour of his arrival. Therefore, as the parable teaches us, like the wise virgins, we are to be always prepared and ready for his arrival. What the parable, however, has not really answered for us is, ‘What must we do to get ourselves prepared and ready,’ or ‘What does it mean to keep awake and be ready for the Lord’s arrival? The Parable of the Talents answers that.

    What does it mean to keep awake?

    To keep awake does not mean to never sleep. If you remember, the wise virgins also slept just as the foolish ones did.

    5 As the bridegroom was delayed, all of them became drowsy and slept. 6 But at midnight there was a shout, ‘Look! Here is the bridegroom! Come out to meet him.’

    What does it mean then to “keep awake” while we’re waiting for the Lord’s coming? The Parable of the Talents answers that question in a more comprehensive way.

    The thing however is, the question raised in the previous parable is answered by Jesus telling another parable! And like any parable, we are faced with the same challenge: interpreting a parable. And that’s not easy, especially because we have a tendency to say things it does not really say.

    Having said that, we must try our best because it is extremely important that we interpret this parable correctly and apply it appropriately. The reason is because it is very important that we understand why “The Grand Wedding Party” at the coming of Jesus, the bridegroom, will be open to some but closed to others. Yes, we now know that we are to “keep awake” to be ready enter the coming Kingdom of heaven, but what does it really mean? ‘What does it mean to “keep awake”?’

    To answer that question, Jesus begins by saying,

    14 “For it is as if a man, going on a journey, summoned his slaves and entrusted his property to them…”

    Keeping awake has to do with what we must do for our Master who has gone away. The man, the master, is going on a journey. Now if that gives us the idea that Jesus has in mind his own going away, we are correct. The fact Jesus that keeps talking about his coming in chapters 24 and 25 obviously implies that he is going away first before his coming again can happen. And indeed, at the very beginning of the next chapter, 26, he predicts his death:

    1 When Jesus had finished saying all these things, he said to his disciples, 2 “You know that after two days the Passover is coming, and the Son of Man will be handed over to be crucified.”

    Jesus died, but that’s not the final stage of his going away. When he rose from the dead, in John 20, he said to Mary,

    17 … “Do not hold on to me, because I have not yet ascended to the Father. But go to my brothers and say to them, ‘I am ascending to my Father and your Father, to my God and your God.’”

    This is the same truth that we proclaim when, at the Lord’s Supper, we recite the Memorial Acclamation: “Christ has died, Christ is risen, Christ will come again.”

    So, while the Master is gone, the slaves are to get busy doing his will. Indeed, they must do his will. It is not an option for a slave who has no ownership rights of her own, even for a bond-slave (which is probably what is meant by the Greek word, δοῦλος, here) who willingly and voluntarily offered herself to be a slave for her chosen master.

    Strong’s Greek word studies tells us that “doúlos (‘bond-slave’) is used with the highest dignity in the NT – namely, of believers who willingly live under Christ’s authority as His devoted followers.” 1 And that, my friends, is a good reminder of our own master-slave relationship: Jesus our Lord is our Master; we are his slaves; and serving him is not an option! He owns everything; we do not own anything. Everything belongs to him, and so we owe everything to him, including our lives, and without him we are nothing! Serving Jesus, our Master is not an option; it is a must!

    Keeping awake has to do with being trustworthy with what the Master has entrusted to us.

    In this parable, the master entrusted his property to his slaves. We can better understand that if we know exactly what that means. And to know what that means we want to know what is included in the “property” that Master has entrusted to us.

    The parable does not tell us in detail what that property is. But we know that whatever is given to the slave, who has no right of her own, belongs to the master. Therefore, anything the slave has is her master’s!

    But in this parable, the slaves are given something specific: talents. And what they do with the talents will prove their trustworthiness or lack of it. It will also serve as our guide as we get busy doing things with whatever our Lord and Master has entrusted to us.

    I’m sure you have already heard this before: talents in this parable are not special aptitudes or abilities or skill, although I think it can be applied broadly as to include them. Talents refer the weight of gold or silver or bronze that were used as currency or medium of exchange in Jesus’ time.2

    So, what did the servants do with their talents so that they were declared by their master trustworthy?

    The “good and trustworthy” slaves doubled their talents

    At once 16 the one who had received the five talents went off and traded with them and made five more talents. 17 In the same way, the one who had the two talents made two more talents.

    Again, we’re not given the details of what or how they did it but the two slaves who were given 5 and 2 talents, respectively, doubled the weight of the money! Now that’s a pretty good investment compared to last year’s S&P 500 Annual Return, which was only 26.89, or the last 10 years’ return at 138.8%. So today, we may consider this the two guys’ investment strategy as moderate—not conservative nor aggressive. They may not have the same amount or weight of money, but both have the same exact rate of return: 100%!

    I don’t think we should insist that we all have the same “rate of return” for whatever it is that our Master has entrusted to us. I think the principle here is that we are to use whatever our Master has given us in a way that would please him.

    The master is pleased with the two slaves so that at his return he commends them with the same commendations, entrusts them with more, and both are given what I believe to be the ultimate joy that a slave can experience:

    ‘Well done, good and trustworthy slave; you have been trustworthy in a few things; I will put you in charge of many things; enter into the joy of your master.’

    On the other hand, what the slave who was given one talent and what he does with it tells us what not to do with our own, whatever that “talent” might be.

    The wicked and lazy servant hid his one talent

    Why does the servant who is given one talent hide it?

    First, he does not really know his master that well. His own words betray his wrong view of his master. When the master returns and the day of reckoning has come, he said to him,

    “Master, I knew that you were a harsh man, reaping where you did not sow and gathering where you did not scatter, 25 so I was afraid, and I went and hid your talent in the ground. Here you have what is yours.’

    Calling his master “a harsh man” is an unfair judgment, especially because a bond-slave is one who willingly gives herself to a master. Why would a person do that? There must be great reasons why people would give themselves as slaves to a master. When you’re poor and starving, would you rather die, or give yourself as a servant to a master who is known for goodness, kindness, and generosity?

    The wicked and lazy servant, on the day of reckoning, tries to judge his master. And his judgment lacks understanding for even if the master reaps where he did not sow or gathers where he did not scatter, he does not reap and gather for himself. In fact, he does not get his talents back; instead, he gives them back to his slaves who are good and trustworthy and productive! Indeed, the one talent that was given to him is taken away from him and given to the one who has the most talents:

    28 So take the talent from him, and give it to the one with the ten talents. 29 For to all those who have, more will be given, and they will have an abundance, but from those who have nothing, even what they have will be taken away.

    But although a bondslave is regarded to have the highest dignity among slaves, it is not his place to judge his master. He doesn’t get to do that. That’s not the role of a slave. It is the master who is the judge.

    And thus, the master condemns the wicked and lazy slave:

    26 But his master replied, ‘You wicked and lazy slave! You knew, did you, that I reap where I did not sow and gather where I did not scatter? 27 Then you ought to have invested my money with the bankers, and on my return I would have received what was my own with interest.

    Second, the master judges him not because his talent did not yield 100% like the investment of the two other slaves’ but because he is not wise enough to do something about it so that it grows even just a bit, like when it is invested with a banker.

    The language of the master seems to say something like what might happen today if you invest your money in a bank: they offer the lowest return of investment. Nevertheless, if you don’t know how to invest, say in stocks, perhaps the safest and surest way to grow your money is to put in a savings account that yields about 4% annually. But 4% is better than 0%!

    Going back to the wicked and lazy slave, it looks like the master would have given him the same commendation as the good and trustworthy slaves who doubled their money, if he invested his money in a no-sweat “investment for dummies”: with a banker. But he did not. Why? He does not really know his master and what he can do for him, and because he is a lazy servant. And the way he judges his good, kind, and generous master, makes him wicked!

    And so, the master condemns him:

    30 As for this worthless slave, throw him into the outer darkness, where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.

    While “the good and trustworthy” slaves are welcomed to the “joy of (their) master, “the wicked and lazy” and “worthless slave” is banished from the presence and joy of his master and to a place of utter darkness and painful sadness and terrible regret.

    Does the Lord know you? Do you know the Lord?
    But doesn’t that look like we are to work for our salvation so that unlike the wicked and lazy and worthless servant we will not be condemned and thrown into the dreadful outer darkness?

    No! Although we may be tempted to get some help by interpreting this parable with the help of other with Scripture texts that, like Ephesians 2:8-10, that might be considered clearer or straightforward on the role of faith and work in our salvation, we do not have to do that. We have enough in this parable and the previous one to make sense of the basis for reward and judgment which seems to have to do with work trustworthiness, laziness, and wickedness, respectively.

    In other words, the parable seems to say that those who are good and work hard will be rewarded with eternal joy in the presence of God; on the other hand, those who are lazy and wicked will be condemned and thrown into hell. But we have to understand that this parable of the talents is closely connected the previous parable of the virgins. There, in the Parable of the Ten Bridesmaid, the young women who had no oil for their lamps and were unprepared for surprise coming of the bridegroom, were pleading for the bridegroom to open the door that was shut: ‘Lord, lord, open to us’ (v. 11), But the Lord replied,

    “Truly I tell you, I do not know you’” (v. 12)

    That statement reminds us of what Jesus said in Matthew 7. After warning his disciples of “false prophets, who come to you in sheep’s clothing but inwardly are ravenous wolves” and who they will know by their fruits or lack thereof (vv. 15-20) he said,

    21 “Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but only the one who does the will of my Father in heaven. 22 On that day many will say to me, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and cast out demons in your name, and do many mighty works in your name?’ 23 Then I will declare to them, ‘I never knew you; go away from me, you who behave lawlessly.’

    In other words, to be “known” by Jesus is the root and foundation on which anyone who calls Jesus “Lord, Lord” grow from, and like a tree, they will grow and bear good fruits. Doing the will of the Father in heaven is something that only the true children of God can do! Work alone without such relationship with God would not do. Salvation or entering the kingdom of heaven is not based on works, it is based on faith and our relationship with God who gave us his Son so that through faith in him we may be saved from sin and eternal damnation.

    Such faith grows out of our knowledge of God who has revealed himself through his son, our Lord Jesus, who is represented by the in the Parable of the Talent. And that’s why we should not be surprised that the lazy and wicked slave does not really know his master. He judged him as a harsh man and one who exploits his slaves. The truth, however, is that he is a good and generous master who does not get his talents back but instead gives them away to those who are good and trustworthy and whose faith in their master is shown through their faithfulness to him!

    So, the questions we may ask ourselves are these: Does the Lord know me? Do I know the Lord?

    The fullness of the kingdom of God that our Lord will inaugurate when he returns is a place of indescribable joy. To be in the kingdom of heaven and be in the presence of our good, kind, and generous Master and King will be fullness of life made perfect. Our Lord and Master has given himself to us—he lived and died for us–and he provides everything we need to serve and please him. And serving him is not just for his glory and honor but also for our own benefit because he, as Master, owns everything and does not need anything. And that is why he gives it all back to us and shares his joy with us now and more so when he comes again!

    Maranatha! O Lord, come!

    ——

    1 String’s Greek: 1401. δοῦλος (doulos) — a slave (bibleapps.com)
    2 The Four Coins Jesus Knew – CoinsWeekly; see also v. 27, “money” is used for talents

  • If a narissist parent can put his family, including his children, at risk, as a country’s leader, he can also put the whole nation, including his fanatic followers, at risk. Thus, it is unwise to choose a narcissist to lead a powerful country and the world.

    It is quite disturbing that a new poll finds a great number of people prefer a narcissist, who also appears to be an aspiring fascist and who is now facing charges for conspiracy to defraud his own country, for a leader to one that has in reality helped his country and the world to make some progress despite the seemingly insurmountable challenges.

    We can live with an old “sleepy” person (not a lot older really but looks healthier than the nacissist fellow) who has allowed us time to take a break and enjoy what this country has to offer and be refreshed, but we cannot and should not tolerate a crazy and egotistic person who barks like a dog at anyone and for any reason to rule us. So, before that even happens, nip it in the bud and give us a break!

  • Small trees are growing 
    Forest fires are raging
    Women are giving birth
    Men at war are killing
    Some visionaries are helping save the planet and humanity from ruin
    Some missionaries just don’t care—
    saving souls for heaven is their calling

    These realities can easily make us mourn our death in advance
    Just as hell’s orchestra is just as ready to play an eerie requiem
    Until we begin to believe we can all be united together for the good of all
    We’re just like the Guyana folks who drank the Kool Aid and lied down to die
    In this universe we must choose to survive and thrive
    Or humanity will be forever forgotten
  • “I never gave up, I never raised my hands and said, ‘That’s enough, I can’t take it anymore, you win’… And because of that, I stand tall now, ready for what comes next.’”**

    Did Matthew Perry win or lose in his battle with drugs and alcohol? It’s hard to say and I don’t want to speculate.

    But before he died, Matthew Perry said, “I never gave up, I never raised my hands and said, ‘That’s enough, I can’t take it anymore, you win’… And because of that, I stand tall now, ready for what comes next.’”

    I admire Perry’s determination to never give up. But was it really enough? Did he succeed? I don’t know. But looking at other people who also struggled with drugs and alcohol and failed, it seems that willpower alone is not enough to quit bad habits.

    I’ve been listening to James Clear’s lessons in “Building Habits for Success” on MasterClass.* And in it he also talks about quitting bad habits and uses smoking, the classic bad habit example that many people are trying to quit.

    There may be other ways and techniques to use to win, but rather than focusing on the goal (such as quitting smoking), Clear recommends having a system and using strategies that would help us quit bad habits and build good ones that would lead to success.

    One of the techniques he recommends is to begin with an identity you choose for yourself now, rather than being someone who is trying to achieve a certain goal in the future. Thus when offered a cigarette, you can simply say, “No, thank you…I’m a non-smoker,” rather than say “I’m trying to quit smoking.”

    I think the new identity that you choose for yourself could help greatly, especially if it is socially shared and reinforced (so yeah, Facebook, for example, can be helpful in that regard).

    The Bible says something similar to that:

    “…if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!” (2 Corinthians 5:17
    New International Version).

    When you share such identity in Christ, your being ‘a new creation in Christ’ can help you live as such!

    *https://www.masterclass.com/classes/small-habits-that-make-a-big-impact-on-your-life?utm_source=Organic-Social-PR&utm_medium=iOS&utm_term=Aq-Remarketing&utm_content=Share; not a paid ad

    **https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/friends-creators-spoke-matthew-perry-2-weeks-died-was-happy-rcna123120

    #matthewperry

  • Image Credit: Анна Романцева (@anna_romanceva), Threads
    It’s the Real Thing, Not the Shadow, that Remains 
    By Ed Fernandez

    Dusk approaches.
    But for this solitary oryx,
    the day isn’t done.

    This simple, beautiful image
    seems to say:
    there’s no end in sight
    for the invisible trail it treads.

    As the sun’s fading rays strike its athletic form,
    a giant shadow stretches
    across the sand—
    distorting the creature
    until it’s almost unrecognizable.

    “Is it on a boat?”
    That’s my wife’s amused query.
    (Well, the setting is a desert, baby!)

    What an amazing image this is—
    and one that reminds us:
    what appears large and obvious
    may be a distraction.
    A mirage of meaning, perhaps—
    something that vanishes
    when the light shifts.

    For when the sun has set,
    the shadow is nowhere to be found.

    But the real thing—
    that’s what remains.